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salam:)

i'm getting ready for HOLIDAY yaww~

i hope everything went well and super fun.

CHECK LIST!!

• 4 nice clothes & hijab
• swimming clothe
• telekung & sejadah
• bath product
• make up
• skin care product
• camera
• handphone, galaxy tab, charger.
• happy face!!

adat vs religion

salam 1 Malaysia, ;p

hello ladies and gentlemen

i've been reading one entry blog who saying about Adat vs Agama..

well he complaining more about adat melayu nowadays..

80% i agree but other 20% totally disagree..

the good thing that i like about his entry,

he issued about hantaran and the wedding reception expenditures~

sometimes people get ridiculous about the number it self :p

well it depends on both parties too you know.

especially the groom whether he like it or not.

*i try to be fair here~

i just want to conclude either adat or religion..all that important is we do the compulsory first that what have been told from our Prophet Rasullah S.A.W then if you able to make your wedding day as glorious as u imagine just make it happen.

but LET US NOT OVERDO IT..

Day 17th and still counting..

Its already 17day being miss fiancée to my beloved man Jani Izwandy..

Alhamdulillah so far we been through everything very well..

its kinda process for us to know more about each other 

so there is a lot things to learn

I just wish everything went well..

to my fiancee, 

i hope u will go easily with me since im much more younger than you

just for reminder, im not perfect human being..

correct me if im wrong..

i have my big EGO sometimes but im soft too..

please love me with all your heart

thank you for choosing me 

Engagement day

Assalamualaikum :)

this is some of my engagement picture taken by ministry of moment.

I would like to thank everybody that had been taking part of making my engagement ceremony successful

Alhamdulillah.

Most Importantly my sister Erni Dekritawati Yuliana & my brother in law Kamarulazlan for being the big part of my engagement ceremony.

and beautiful siblings Erwan Suwari Rizuwan, Md Erwan Nasri, Erni Erinawati Sofia & Siti Nur Fatimah

To my dulang angels on that day  : Dalilah Bt Zainal Abidin, Fariza Mayangsari, Nurul Farihaa Binti Zainol, Ungku Anna Alysa, Hur' ain Binti Omar, Nur Amalina Zafirah, Siti Norfaraheen Binti Shamsher, Siti Nur Fatimah & Masliyana.

Last but not least Faizul my designer from Rizalman Ibrahim for this beautiful engagement dress.

Thank you very much!

Commitment

assalamualaikum w.b.t

"Up In The Air"
such an inspirational movie for my post about commitment...
that is why i wrote it right now to show how this variety of commitment effects on our life
it is such an arguments of why people do not care about their commitment especially what happen in US right now..
im being curious about women out there who totally scared of marriage..
not because of the responsibilities that they have to overcome
because the question is do men nowadays ready to have commitments with women?
the movie i have stated here tells us a story about a guy who really does not believe to commitment..
his philosophy make him do not believe in commitment because he thinks he do not have to carry a bag who will only burden him to death..
one of his dialogue written "imagine a bag-pack as ur bf/gf,marriage etc and u carried all along until u die.."
at the end of the day he fall for someone who support his philosophy..a women..
a women who had open his heart to give in commitment to this women..
one day he came up to her house and on that night he numb because the women already had a family..
she called him and ask
women : "What are u doing? go to my house suddenly?that's my family u know and this is my real life"
man : what do u think i'm doing?
women : wait..what?what do u really want?
man :...please make me understand u..what is going on?i thought we have something?
women : i thought we on the same channel here..i'm grown ups and i have a family.just call me when u are lonely alright..
man : (hang up)..

It is a totally bummer..this women were expecting an scandal relationship while she having a beautiful family back home whoever this men was really ready to open his heart and give it to this women who were pretty suits him..he thought she was the one..

Seriously in my opinion..people who do not believe in marriage and any commitments are all cowards.
they been playing safe because afraid of being broken and never believe of a happy relationship..
even if u have a broken hearts never say no to love..
love does HURTS but love also CURE..
It is true that women does love nagging all time(i do) but thinks are getting better and better after a fight..
every relationship had their up and down but no matter what we all know why we love each other..
Furthermore, i just could not understand of certain people who have kids without any marriage tittle..
it is damn same thing if u once married and have kids.

im just saying.peace.

Termenung

mana je aku pegi mesti aku suka termenung..
aku suka termenung sebab banyak yang nak difikirkan..
takda masa nak fikir smbil bercakap sebab bercakap penat..
kalau termenung xpenat..
orang boleh ingat aku pandang dia punya lama sampai dia malu sendiri
aku bukan tgk muka dia pon..
realitinya aku suke termenung..
fikir mcm mne nk dapat solution..
kalau nak cari barang yg tercicir..
mesti aku diam dan termenung utk ingatkan balik ingatan..
setengah org suke cari sambil membebel..
tp kalau dah xjumpe betol bru aku bebel jugak la sbb mesti ade org letak tmpt lain..
bukan tu jee..kadang2 kalau rasa marah mesti termenung jugak,,
dengan termenung lah aku boleh tenangkan fikiran and berfikir secara rasional..
pendek kata termenung ni buatkan aku suke pendam perasaan..
in a good way...
tak sume masalah aku kongsi dengan semua org..
sbb hanya tuhan je yg taw ape yang aku pikirkan masa aku termenung..
kalau suke bercerita kat org pon kadang2 segan..
ade jugak bagusnya termenung ni...
sekurang2 nya kita x menyakitkan hati org lain dgn mulut kita,,
dalam hati kita terdetik dalam akal jugaklah kita berfikir..

Make you feel my love- Adele

When the rain
Is blowing in your face
And the whole world
Is on your case
I could offer you
A warm embrace
To make you feel my love

When the evening shadows
And the stars appear
And there is no - one there
To dry your tears
I could hold you
For a million years
To make you feel my love

I know you
Haven't made
Your mind up yet
But I would never
Do you wrong
I've known it
From the moment
That we met
No doubt in my mind
Where you belong
[ Lyrics from: http://www.lyricsmode.com/lyrics/a/adele/make_you_feel_my_love.html ]
I'd go hungry
I'd go black and blue
I'd go crawling
Down the avenue
Know there's nothing
That I wouldn't do
To make you feel my love

The storms are raging
On the rolling sea
And on the highway of regret
The winds of change
Are blowing wild and free
You ain't seen nothing
Like me yet

I could make you happy
Make your dreams come true
Nothing that I wouldn't do
Go to the ends
Of the Earth for you
To make you feel my love, To make you feel my love